One girl unaware of this subreddit or Reddit at all posted to innocently asked what "teabagging" was. I sent her a detailed explanation. She wrote back, asking for clarification. This went back and forth until I good-naturedly offered to show her. She sent back naked pictures of herself which showed her to be a quite attractive, b naked did I mention "naked"? I've only ever tried it once.
I live in the south, nobody uses it around here. But when I was on vacation once I tried it out in a larger city. Being a straight male I didn't expect much luck, but I was fortunate enough to meet a couple who was looking for third. Well, actually they were looking for another couple, but settled on just a third. We met at a bar, had some beers, and the chemistry was right, so we headed back to my hotel and got on with the sexy times.
Nothing too fancy, just your typical threeway. But it was fun, and we met again later that week before I left. Can you elaborate on the second guy giving you cues so you know it's an act? What does that mean? Well, it's all grey territory and I think I absolutely need to clarify ground rules before heading into another scenario like that I'm very new to roleplaying and also VERY new to NSA sex and didn't cover my bases with this guy , so there were a few moments when I felt like it was on the verge of going too far and I suddenly wasn't sure if he was actually insane, but then he'd break character for just a moment to give me a warm smile or comforting pat.
I also stupidly forgot to tell him I'm not into assplay of any kind, so at one point he roughly pinned me down and spat in my asshole and made a move to finger me, and I squealed and said no, but he kept going, so I changed my tone of voice and said "no, really, " and he immediately backed off, apologized, smiled, and moved on to other fun stuff. I don't know I guess I've been lucky. I met my current kinky boyfriend online and things have worked out great with him so far.
He and I have been searching for couples or singles to join us both online and in real life. While our search is fairly new we've already found a kinky couple that seem like really nice people and are both into kink and consent much the way we are. We haven't met them yet but we've been sending long messages back and forth and so far everything's been great. They're basically like the kind of people we'd be friends with and play with sometimes as well.
Of course I've also heard horror stories about a friend's friend getting raped by a guy she met online. I think it comes down to how much you communicate before you meet and screen potential suitors. I don't have any experiences to talk about because no women are biting. Women have it easy. I do feel a little guilty about how easy it has been for me to get laid on craigslist, and how hard up most guys seem to be. Have you tried responding to w4ms as opposed to putting up a m4w?
I don't even bother checking those. None are real So now they all get flagged within 15 minutes or so. It's using fake identities to get people to sign up for NSA dating sites. Theres so much of that spam. And I've had women who were interested, but have turned me down because I was I just turned I've also posted ads before under m4m, wanting to find a nice huge penis to worship with my mouth and then take deep inside me, but It's as if tops don't exist on CL.
But if you'd prefer to think that I was getting off, go for it. Where I was going is that it's unusual for a straight male to successfully hook up vi CL. Glad you had fun, be safe, etc. Yeah I got that sense when the 2 guys who came over seemed absolutely incredulous and grateful that they'd actually landed a real non-weird non-crazy girl. I was kind of like "eh? Guys in general, in my experience have to use an online dating site and filter out the girls that seem like they're looking for something serious to get NSA sex.
Perhaps I was bewitched. We were hitting it off and having fun. But still, it was a first date, and nobody is really into sleeping with someone on the first date , right?
She was witty, and she liked my sense of humor. And then I walked her to her car. And as we parted, we talked about maybe getting together again later in the evening for some live music … or something. I handed her a cd of the music that was rocking my world at the moment. And she drove off and called me moments later thanking me for showing her how to use her CD-player in her car. A nice new convertible. She was something else. My libido was doing most of my thinking and pushing my maps to the bottom of the drawer.
Much to my delight, she was as joyous and playful as I was. We might not be a match, but we were surely a hit. And that proved to be enough. I got back to my house and passed out on the bed.
And when I roused again my phone was ringing. Most people blow you off at the first sign of a near miss. We talked around options and decided on Orange is the New Black at her house.
From there, I have to admit I was hooked in to the idea of casual, no strings attached, sex with her. And the odd part is, I was feeling no pain, no resistance, just pure and easy desire. And I felt her desire, too! Even as I was showering to get ready I could feel the jump in my skin.
The idea of sex was making its way through my bloodstream. But she was all there and all present and all okay with my wandering hand. And I mean, on her neck and shoulder. And that was refreshing. And when things did finally catch fire, I was even more appreciative of her physical regimen and joyous outlook on life, and sex, and whatever was next...
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Dragon's Bard Short smutty snippets of a Dragon's travels. Between the Lines Ch. He started to kneel down with me and I pushed him forwards and rimmed him for a bit which he also likes. He then turned around and kissed me then pushed me onto my back, lifted my legs over his shoulders and thrust into me again.
It was very intense and deep and l loved it. We did that for a bit, then he withdrew and moved down to eat me. He was actually laughing at me I was convulsing and moaning and he had to hold my hands down because they were fluttering all over the place grabbing at nothing. He rimmed me too. Then we got back into missionary and just fucked, kind of slowly, looking at each other and then looking at his cock moving in and out of me which looked amazing , then kissing hard, kissing soft.
He looks gorgeous doing this, he moves his hips so fluidly. He withdrew a few times and rubbed his cock between my pussy lips, I put my hand on top of it, to enclose it. Then back inside me and I rubbed my clit while he fucked me, he likes to see that.
Then he withdrew again and came on my pussy and belly. He always has a lot of cum and that seems to go on a while. Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner s? Yes, he had one. He seems very controlled. What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He says he is. I absolutely adore sex with him. How did you feel about it? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards we cleaned ourselves up a bit with wet wipes, then lay beside each other naked, sideways on my bed and chatted for quite a while, about all kinds of things: It was very relaxed, his leg was resting over mine and we were lightly touching.
My cat loves him crazily for some reason and came along and was all over him so much it was funny. After a while he got up and had a shower, and then we both got dressed.
He said he would email me. I told him not to worry about me knowing his name because I already knew it. I said, I know who you are. He jokingly called me a stalker. Then we stood up and had a hug and a kiss that went on for a bit and then he left. My expectation was that that would be that. He said he is going to try not to be naughty from now on. I now know that if he were to stay here I would not be able to resist him and I would have sex with him again, despite him being married.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Do you regret this hookup? No way, it was fantastic to be with him one more time. What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?
The best thing was that it was more of the fabulous, passionate, intense sex that I have enjoyed with him. It leaves me blissed out. The worst was that it was the first time I had sex with a married man, whilst in full control of myself and having the ability to make a clear choice.
It surprised me and worried me that I easily and unequivocally chose to proceed, and that my desire for him had not been diminished by discovering the true nature of what he was doing.
And how unclear I am about what I think, the older and more experienced I get. In my 20s before I was married, my view was that cheating was just wrong.
Except I made my own exceptions in 2 instances: So my own approach was inconsistent. Then when I was married, I would never have cheated on my husband, even when our marriage was pretty dire.
When I found out that my husband had been cheating on me, for years, with different people, it was the most horrendous feeling. It was a physical feeling of nausea and not being able to breathe properly and my ears ringing constantly.
I was genuinely surprised at just how bad it was. Her experience was pretty awful too, her role was exposed, and she got baled up by various people and was forced to apologise and explain. Following this I thought that obviously I would be the last person to EVER get myself involved in anything to do with infidelity and that is why my personal stance was no way. He is married and it started off completely innocent but over a long period of time it developed into a full blown online sexual affair exchanging pictures, chatting, sexting and eventually FaceTime calling.
We stopped so many times, only to start up again a while later. We were both adamant that we must not meet. Unfortunately we bumped into each other drunk one time and something did happen — it was a bit frightening and we backed off yet again.
Shortly after that I saw his family in person from a distance and it really helped me to see the people involved. We finally managed to stop it. This really shook me up. How could I, as the person who had just emerged from the nightmare of being cheated on, get myself into this situation.
Anyway, here I find myself again, having gone even a step further. I am quite confused about the whole thing to be honest. SO many, that it is unbelievable. Quite a few of them are also approaching men for some sex on the side so the men I talk to are telling me. They seem relatively unworried about the cheating aspect and also the lying aspect as many of them lie about their married status as well. Online you also come across those people who have negotiated something different for themselves, maybe an open marriage, or couples who play together.
It just makes me wonder whether our expectations around monogamy are unrealistic and whether we might all be better off if we could talk more openly about that and debate around that. The worst thing about being cheated on was not that my husband had sex with someone else.