I mainly contacted people on Craigslist who sounded like they had put some thought into their posts and not just 'lets fuk, friendly'. I probably only responded to maybe 10 posts over the couple of years when I was doing it.
I also submitted posts a couple times just to see what happened girls get flooded with dick pics and messages from creepers; as a guy I pretty much just got responses from spam bots. I didn't have any weird or bad encounters. No ambushes or ladies with wieners, at worst we just weren't into each other and that was it. I did meet some pretty fun people, I even dated one for a little while. I'd say for me it was similar to meeting people at a party. It started to feel weird after a while though so I stopped.
So we played video games. Then his roomate tried to convince me to stay the night, to which I declined. Video games was fun, though. My ex had a lot of success with it before I found out and dumped him.
If you're looking to bang desperate people, then have at it. Naw, he was a cheater. I don't do open relationships and he had major issues that resulted in him having to need to cheat.
Before I ended it with him I made him give me his phone so I could read the texts and emails from his fucks. After reading them I realized how pathetic all those gay men were from that website. I dumped him, got tested for everthing and found a boy friend on OkCupid that appreciates my "blowjob wherever you ask" policy and doesn't have hang ups about monogamy. Lol, both of us were gay, and I'm as freaky as they come with a large sex drive. He actually had issues asking me for sex which he could have had at any time.
He had unresolved daddy issues which forced him to cheat, and he used Craig's List to do it. It was pitiful and sad. When I dumped him I could hear him crying all the way back to my car. I have had a lot of Craigslist encounters. I posted this the other day. Take it from me craigslist. Gentlemen, if you respond to a post and receive a picture from the woman,just remember, it is the BEST picture she has ever taken in her life. If she looks like a 7, shes a 3.
If she looks like a 5, expect a 2 at best. I use proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation, and always type complete sentences. I try to come across as a normal, sane guy. I almost always attach a photo or two with my first response. It's a recent, clothed picture, showing my face clearly and accurately, as well as my body.
I sometimes send a shirtless photo. I do not send pics of my junk, even if requested. My posts vary significantly, depending on what I'm targeting.
Sometimes I've posted as a sugar daddy looking to help out a young, needy woman. Something like "I'll take you lingerie shopping, then we can go back to a classy hotel and you can model it for me. Let's meet somewhere in public, get comfortable with each other, then go back to my place or yours for an intimate massage. I'll spend a hundred bucks on lingerie, or take them out to a super nice dinner and out on the town, or take them shopping at the mall.. I've even paid cash a few times, which is admittedly the same as paying a prostitute, only these girls are "non pros.
This is awesome, wish I was still up to my craigslist shenanigans knowing there are guys like you on it. Would have loved to have a guy actually wine and dine me or buy my lingerie! Once I showed up and a guy wanted to fuck me while his dad watched.
Im almost thinking about putting up my own Iama from the girls perspective, now that ive seen this. Ive had some intense encounters.
Lol not since getting a bf having steady mind blowing sex. But hes been wanting me to branch into it again and find us a third. So dont give up! And yes, the third were looking for would have to be female so probably best to move towards someone more in need of man parts. Like, older than the fucking hills. Make excessive use of your tinfoil hat. Use quoted Google searches to see if the same text or similar is used in different cities. If the title says age 22, but then the description says age 35, it's probably spam.
Just use your best judgement. When posting ads, definitely don't post a pic of your junk. Penises are not sexy. Also, unless you have a really killer body, don't post topless pics of yourself. Instead, find a picture of something that relates to your post on Google images. Posts with a "pic" next to the title are much more likely to stand out. For instance, if you want to have a candlelit dinner followed by some hot sex, find a picture of a man and a woman facing each other, naked, with a glass of wine.
Like a profile shot. I'm thinking of the Jerry Maguire scene here. Always, always, always use full sentences and write clearly. I must be a "different type" of woman? Have you ever got a reply from a woman that you already hooked up with as one of your other personas, i. Hooked up as sugar daddy now she wants to cuddle? Yes, I've been on both sides of the fence. A girl replied to multiple ads that were separated by a few months and she didn't know it was me. I also replied to multiple ads by the same woman.
Kind of embarrassing I guess, but then again she's doing it too so it didn't matter. The most awkward is when I hooked up with a woman in the sugar daddy role then saw her around town later. I was in line behind her at the grocery store.
We made eye contact so I know she recognized me, but she rushed off without saying hello. You should have stared at her while calmly taking a carrot out of your grocery cart, placing it in your mouth the carrot, not the grocery cart , and sucked it. All while maintaining eye contact. On second thought, I think it would be better if he sucked the grocery cart instead of the carrot.
Do you mean in terms of looks? Maybe like a 6 or so. A lot of chubby girls reply. I don't mind chubby, but I don't do obese. The quality varies enormously. The indian girl I described in an earlier post was hot and sexy and we had a great time. Another girl I met just laid there like a fucking dead fish. Worst sex of my life. We had made a nice dinner at my place.. In my experience cougars LOVE guys your age, and trust me, cougars are crazy sexy. If you post an ad, definitely do not say MILF.
Cougar is okay though. Say something like "Strapping young cub seeks cougar for rousting adventure. Find a clever image to include, maybe like this - http: Your post should be descriptive, well written and thoughtful. You might not get a response your first time, or your second, or third. It just takes the right woman looking at the ad. When you do get a response, be witty and really friendly in your response.
Don't send a picture of your dick. Maybe tease her a little, and try to be as articulate as possible. Don't leave an ad up for more than a couple days, and don't reuse the same title in each ad. Awesome, but can we aspiring cubs get some more advice please? I reaaaallllyyy want a cougar or three! I've done a bit of craigslist man-whoring myself and the guy punching the wall reminds me of a story:.
I met a couple off of CL. Both were about 35, I was 27ish. He was a military guy but small framed. She was a stripper and they were very experienced swingers but he also liked her to go and fuck other guys alone, video tape it and take it home to watch with him. So, the first meeting was in person at a Starbucks. He and I have some quick chit-chat and then she invites me back to her car to smoke pot while he stays in Starbucks.
Everything went well, we setup the date night. Date night - she comes over straight after work. We set the camera up on my dresser and get started. They both made it very clear that kissing was against the rules, so was anal even though she loved it and sex without a condom.
She was an awesome fuck and really liked it wild. Between the stripper looks and pornstar fucking, it was like our own porno.
She previously mentioned that loved being choked and having her hair pulled back while being fucked doggy style, so there was plenty of that involved. When she showed it to her husband her was furious. Apparently he was very sensitive about anyone "dominating" her or fucking her rough. I think he wanted her to be in charge when she fucked me and that just wasn't what she wanted. From the way she explained it, he demanded my address and wanted to come over and kick my ass.
He also made several calls to me from her cellphone over the next few days. Fast forward about 3 weeks - she contacts me again and says she wants to come over and fuck again. I said "sure, but what about your husband? Long story short - she brought the camera but said she "forgot" the AC adapter so we couldn't film it. At her request, I fucked her without a condom in both her pussy and ass, while kissing like mad. It was even better than the first time and when she left we both said we couldn't wait to do it again.
About a week later I got a text message from her that said: Assuming that the said female appears drastically different from the picture when you meet her, what is your "letdown" line? Do you say something along the lines of "oops, I forgot I have somewhere better to be"? I'm just honest about it.
This is the picture you sent me. If you send somebody an inaccurate photo you're just shooting yourself in the foot. It's not like I'm going to say to myself, "well, in her photos she looked good, but she's massively obese in person.
Guess I'll go through with it anyway" once I meet her. I lost my virginity at 3 years ago, at 17, to a girl on gumtree like craigslist and I met up with a couple more women in the two months following. I didn't message that many and I was surprised how easy it was.
I've tried a few times since then but I've seen to lost my nack. I have found it to create as much loneliness as it eliminated. For me it's a temporary fix at best. I'd much rather be in something stable and long term, if I could stop myself from sexual obsession that is.
I have done escorts too, but it's not as fun and obviously it's expensive. To escorts it's a job, and I'm just another client. With these women there are less rules and they're doing it for their own pleasure. I've wanted to date somebody that I met but she wasn't interested. I secretly have always hoped that it would lead me to a sexually adventurous woman. I'm guessing you've given up on long-term relationships since you do this.
Don't you miss the emotional fulfillment? How would you rate yourself on a scale of or if you have the opinion of others, what do they say? A couple of dozen encounters within 6 years with generally mediocre girls does not seem that awesome. When I was in a similar mood after my first relationship, I managed to have around 20 sexual encounters within 3 years and I would only rate as not good looking , in the old fashioned way and I'm a huge geek.
Have you tried to "analog way" before? How would you compare it to Craiglist? No, I haven't been rejected because I always use accurate photos and description.
They know what they're getting themselves in to. I once posted a picture on hot or not and ended up with around an 8 I believe. I had some breaks in there when I was in a relationship, most notably a roughly three year relationship from I meet women through "normal" avenues too..
I'd say it's about the same experience, only it's messier when they are real life. We usually know people in common and then the rumor mill starts. I'm surprised you managed to get an eight. Males on Hot or Not usually average around 5 max.
I got a 2 on average the one time I gave it a go and I know I'm not that bad looking. I just created this account. I'm a male who used CL casual encounters for a few years.
I had a lot of fun but it can be pretty sketchy. I ended up having sex with my friend's mom a few years ago when I was It kind of weirded her out I think. To this day she avoids making eye contact with me, which kind of sucks.
Then again, she is married and her kid is my best friend so I think she's nervous about me holding all the cards somehow. I'd never tell anyway. I had a lot of MMF threesomes. One of them the husband freaked out about half way through, took a swing at me but missed and his hand hit the doorframe I was in the process of sprinting out.
I think he broke every bone in his hand. I had a really nice girl fall in love with me She left a few notes for me explaining she was bi-polar but medicated and she loved me.
I didn't respond and kind of told her to leave me alone so I could bring other girls home. My room mate got up before I did and found her standing in the front with a butterfly knife out. Not sure if she was afraid of the dog or trying to stab me, but I think it was the latter.
She shouted this prepared speech at me about loving me and how I threw her out like trash then ran away crying and I didn't see her again. The casual encounters section is kind of a mixed bag.
It can either go really well, or really bad. I had more success posting in the M4W section pretending I was looking for a relationship.
Those girls are very lonely and if you slightly manipulate that angle they give it up on the first date and a lot of them will pretty much do whatever you want just to impress you once they've decided to cross the sexual-rubicon.
Getting rid of them is more difficult than getting them. They'll intentionally drop their bra, wallet, purse, sweater, whatever so they can come back and play house with you. Have you ever tried the M4W section? I stopped using CL when I found another freak like me. I worked with her What would it take for you to pick a partner? Please tell the story of how you banged your friends mom, and the husband who took the swing at you I communicated with him mostly because it was his fantasy to see another man have sex with his wife.
I met them at a hotel bar and they both seemed like really nice, middle aged people. He was a little on the heavy side but his wife was pretty hot. He said ever since she turned 33 her libido went through the roof and she finally wanted the same fantasies he did or something along those lines.
Anyway, everything is fine so we head up to the hotel room. She was a little nervous so I took off my shirt and unbuttoned my jeans. She gave me head and after about a minute she relaxed and paused to take off her clothes. Her husband didn't say anything but as soon as she took off her panties I could see him get a little red faced he was just sitting in a chair watching with his clothes on.
I should have paused for a second I asked what was up but I figured he was just blushing or something. Ignoring him definitely turned into a mistake. I like rough sex and apparently, unknown to him, so does his wife. She went wild for about 30 minutes while I worked her over. She came twice then I finished. As I'm putting my jeans back on and reaching for my shirt I said something friendly to him about having a good time hanging out with them. He made a weird grunting noise indicating he is obviously upset.
His wife said something mildly flirty like, 'awww, honey, don't be jealous. He said something to her, gets up and walks over to me and starts poking his finger into my chest and giving me a stern talking to about disrespecting him.
I had no idea what to say. His wife was trying to calm him down but he wouldn't. I finally just told him to go fuck himself if it wasn't what he wanted and that its not like I can go back and unfuck his wife.
So he threw a punch and hit the doorframe I was standing in and I blitzed out that door barefoot and holding my shoes and shirt. My friend's mom isn't as exciting. I was 18 and made an ad on CL asking how to meet a cougar.
Anyway, one of the responses I asked if we could exchange pictures. A few months later I stopped by over there to meet my friend but he was out of town with his dad. We had an awkward conversation about the internet and her sexless marriage. We had sex just about the entire weekend they were gone.
I went back to my university and I haven't really talked about it with her since. In retrospect - I was a terrible lay at that point in my life and I have no idea why she had fun having sex with me. She made me cookies and we watched movies though.
You should have ran back and gave her your number. As I read your post, I wondered the same thing about both of you - what are you ultimately looking for? Do you consider all these sexual encounters a way to keep your libido satisfied until you fall for someone?
Are you damaged from a past relationship and avoiding getting hurt again? Is casual sex all you want, or are you sifting through the haystack in search of a needle? Have you respected any of your conquests or are you just playing a game to get off? Tell me about some women you've met who have been keepers - worth spending time with in and out of the sack, where there's conversational and sexual chemistry, a spark. I'm just a sexual deviant. I had healthy relationships on and off where I would sustain a monogamous relationship, but none of them were good fits sexually.
They were educated girls around my age who were future soccer moms. The girl I am with now I will probably marry. We compliment each other very well in the bedroom and in real life. I did not give a shit about anyone from craigslist. I was pretty manipulative when it came to getting laid. I was not looking for a relationship online.
I'm not damaged good from past relationships either. In college a lot of my friends took pride in drinking a lot and partying and sometimes they would wake up next to a girl they barely knew. I didn't drink a lot in college but I had sex with a lot of girls instead. The girl I'm with now I've been with for a few years and she engages me intellectually, emotionally and sexually. I used to think I wouldn't be able to meet a girl who was sane and enjoyed the same kind of sex I do, but I found one and locked it down.
Everyone worth spending some time with, to a greater or lesser degree. As a man who used to sleep around a lot, I can tell you for certain why they do this--novelty. It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective that men would want to copulate with as many disparate females as possible. It's just the desire to screw someone new. Why is this confusing to some people? What do you do for a living? If you're uncomfortable answering that, can you tell us your average salary?
I'm querying towards an indication of how much of your income you're spending on the sugar daddy role. I make a low six figure income. I save a lot and only do the sugar daddy thing when I have some discretionary income burning a hole in my pocket...